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Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazing things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his mega-best-selling book “How to win friends and influence people” shares about the simple power of asking questions to show that we are interested in someone else.

Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you’re a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to last-base, saving a lot of time trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.

If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you’re a waiter and a customer was super rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or think about doing this?

2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?

3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?

6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?

7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?

8. What’s the funniest experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?

11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?

12. If you instantly turned into a woman just for a day, what would you do with your day and why?

13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?

14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?

Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!

15. Have you ever been caught naked in a public place – if so what were you doing?

16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What turns you off the most sexually?

19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?

20. Have you ever been caught playing with yourself? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?

21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?

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